Your life and your time is precious. Don’t spend it on creating others’ dreams. Helping someone is completely a different story.
Been busy with all happenings of life, where ME was missing. I thought to give it a go and spend a few months spending ME time. It is not at all a bad idea, though people do miss my presence. But I think that is all we need.
Helping them, be with them and listening to their problems is my all time duty when I am around. It is good to know that people trust you for being around.
But, ME time is also important to reflect upon your own life. To give your life a purpose, because you are important too.
ME time does not necessarily mean a month or a week or day off. It just need at least 10 minutes time from your 24 hours circle! Just be in a silent mode, take a deep breath, have some tea, coffee or juice or anything you like and relax!
I hope you will feel better!